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Kaleena (Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta)-Marriage is secondary.

   Kaleena. Kaleena. Kaleena. One minute she was hugged up with gal pal Ashley turning up and salivating over female strippers. The next minute, she was talking about “making it work” with her husband. I know women are known for changing their mind, but d_ _ n! Now she is pregnant. Congratulations are” in order”.

    Does anybody know why she told her friend Rasheeda about the pregnancy before her husband? I guess she showed that her loyalty is to a woman first before a man. Her husband Tony doesn’t know at this point that he was not the first to hear the “good news”. I hope he doesn’t find out, especially through the “grape vine”. Kaleena and Tony have any problems. Mold was discovered in their house threatening their safety and business (they have a recording studio in their house).

   I don’t wish misfortune on any one, but Kaleena is bad news waiting to happen. She is not trustworthy. Marriage seems to be secondary in her life. I would not be surprised if she goes back to Ashley after the baby is born. I wish Tony good luck, because he has a wife that could “jump ship” at any moment.

 

Lil Scrappy and Bambi (Love and Hip Hop Atlanta) of the Jungle.

    Lil Scrappy is just 30 years old. So, he is still finding his way to what he wants in a woman. He has decided to pursue Ms. Bambi again. He set up a picnic for him and her in the middle of nowhere. Boy, what a horny guy does to get some sex. I have never met or contemplated meeting a woman in the jungle.

    Hey Scrappy, I guess you finally figured out that Erica Pinkett is a loose cannon. I still don’t understand why she went off on you. Ladies. Fighting men is not the new sexy. I have to give Bambi more credit than you Scrap. Men do stupid things like going into the jungle. Most women especially black women don’t usually follow guys into the middle of nowhere.

    I guess Bambi is trying to reenact the scene from Jacob’s Lyric. If you remember, Allen Payne met Jada Pinkett on a bridge in the middle of nowhere. Bambi loves Scrappy. I don’t think Lil Scrappy loves Bambi. I think his hormones are raging and that he wants to get his r _ _ _ s off. Bambi. I don’t blame you. You are a young girl who hasn’t realized that you are in love with a man that is not yet ready to be with one woman.

   I pray that you realize what you are dealing with and chalk it up as experience.

Hey Ms. Dirty (Mimi Faust – Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta), Mr. Creepy (Nikko - Love and Hip Hop Atlanta) has you D _ _ knotized!

 

    I can understand a teenage girl being smitten and manipulated by a guy. Ms. Dirty is an older woman with a child (a daughter) and she’s acting like a d_ _ k whipped school girl. She is under d_ _ knosis. Probably from the first time she and Mr. Creepy were together “disgusting”. That is the only way an older woman, mother; businesswoman could lay down with a guy like Mr. Creepy.

   She had the nerve to make a sex tape with the guy and believe it accidentally went to the public. Ms. Dirty you don’t care about yourself or your child. I knew you didn’t care about yourself the day you played with Mr. Creepy. I knew you didn’t care about your daughter the day you brought Mr. Creepy around her. Hey. Do you think that you will be getting a “mother of the year award"?

   Ms. Dirty, I expect Mr. creepy to make you his bottom girl and get some more foolish women like you. Then he can really get his sex business on the right track. Ms. Dirty. It doesn’t look good right now. I hope you can break the spell you’re under and go back to the world of reality.

Keke Palmer – Rising Star.

I saw Keke Palmer as a young actress in the movies “Jump In” and “Madea’s Family Reunion”. I thought she was a pretty good young “up and coming” actress. I didn’t know that she was born in Harvey, Illinois and lived for a while in Robbins, Illinois. These are two Southwestern suburbs in Chicago, Illinois. Keke and her family moved to California in the hopes of her pursuing a promising acting career. I am familiar with both of those suburbs.

   When I was a young man, my parents took me to a mall called Dixie Square in Harvey. I knew people from college who lived there.  I ate at a restaurant near a grocery store called Trogdon on 135^th and Pulaski in Robbins. I worked advertising sales for a “shopper” newspaper called Penny Saver Publication. I had parts of Robbins as my sales territory. No other salesperson wanted Robbins to be part of their sales routes.

   I found out why one day when I was calling on store owners to purchase advertising. I will never forget one store owner who told me that he didn’t need to advertise his store in Penny Saver. His reasoning was that the store made its money mostly on the sales of alcohol and cigarettes. I had never heard of such a thing. The store owner was serious. I was shocked at the statement. I’m sure that Keke is not saying, “There is no place like home” in reference to Harvey or Robbins, Illinois.

   Now at age 20, Keke Palmer has her own talk show on BET. The word is that the show is a “trial run”. Who cares? “trial run” or not. How many 20 year olds get the chance to have a talk show? I don’t understand the working of television, but I guess keke Palmer represents the voice of the younger generation. Keke Palmer and other African women on television solidify the fact that they have arrived and represent the power of black women in the media. I hope Keke Palmer’s show becomes a regular on BET.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

       

 

Ayshia (Bad Girls Club of Chicago) is acting like a prison _ _ _ _ h!

   Ayshia is the petite Chicago Bad Girl that looks like Angelina Jolie. Ayshia was bullied in the house for a while by some of the other cast members. All of a sudden “came Blu to the rescue”. Ayshia started cuddling up with her. Now Ayshia and Blu are inseparable.  Ayshia is supposed to have a boyfriend and Blu has a girlfriend named Diamond that often shows up in different episodes (I guess Blu and diamond have an open relationship).

    Ayshia is acting like a prison _ _ _ _ h!. She knows that Blu is “large and in charge” in the house. So, she is laying under her for protection and a chance to receive the bonus checks given to all the girls that remain in the Bad Girls Club House from start to finish. Ayshia. Be careful, you might actually be converted to the “lesbian lifestyle”

    It will be interesting to see what Ayshia does if she makes it to the end of the show. I certainly will be watching.

Big Redd (Bad Girls club of Chicago) is a “true to the hood” girl.

    Big Redd has made a reappearance on The Bad Girls Club of Chicago. She left for a while to attend to her mother who was ill. I certainly hope her mom will continue to do and feel better. Redd came back to the house with Britt and started where she left off. She put the x back on the picture of Jada that is on the wall of the house.

     She spoke to everyone present, thou no one seemed too happy to see her (what was wrong with Loren? I guess the house was not big enough to hold two bullies). Redd tried to start an argument about the amount of detergent used in her absence. No one seemed to pay her any attention. Thou petite Aysha flinched at her (I don’t think she would have dared if she weren’t Jonica’s aka Blu’s “prison  _ _ _ _ h”).

    Redd’s return was really culminated when she verbally threatened the life coach assigned to the Bad Girls House. Redd told her that she was going to “tap” her. Redd didn’t lay one hand on the life coach. Let me tell you why. Redd is from South Florida, specifically Ft. Lauderdale (Broward county). The state of Florida has a law called “Stand your ground” (remember the George Zimmerman case?).

   This law allows a person to harm another person if they feel their life is being threatened. Redd probably knows that law and was waiting for the life coach to put her in a perilous situation. Redd wasn’t thinking. Illinois is not a
“Stand your Ground” state (can you imagine giving the gang bangers of Chicago a license to hurt people? Chicago would be a ghost town.) Well, back to Redd. Many people in South Florida talk “big and bad”, but don’t do anything just like Redd.

    If Redd was from “Chi Town”, the life coach would have been picking her blood soaked teeth off the floor while Redd was being handcuffed and brutally yanked away to jail. Thank goodness that Redd is a South Floridian. If she had hit the life coach and went to jail she would’ve starved. Red, people in jail don’t eat six times a day. Big Redd. I said it before and I will say it again, you are a “true to the hood” girl. South Florida!! I love you!!!!

Why do some women dislike strippers, prostitutes and other sex workers?

    Many men like women that are wild, freaky and built like “brick houses”. When I was a young man, I loved to look at Playboy, Penthouse and other such magazines. When I became of age, I visited strip club in several states. I didn’t make it rain, but did see some action.

    Strippers and other sex workers represent women that fulfill sexual fantasies. These women do things that a girlfriend, baby mama of wife will or stopped doing. What so some men do? They gravitate towards women who can fulfill their carnal desires. Some men become addicted to sex workers.  They neglect spending time with their steady women. This causes problems in the relationship. You see these “fantasy women” pose as competition to a girlfriend, baby mama or wife. That is why some women don’t like them.

    It is hard to be a man, because society set such high standards. Some of us are unable to fulfill our duties of being a good boyfriend, baby daddy or husband. We sometimes fall short in providing adequate food, clothing and shelter for our family. Matters become worse, when our woman complains about our lack of production. So, we turn to women who won’t judge us and will fulfill our sexual needs. We don’t care if that person charges us by the hour. We shouldn’t go outside of our relationships to fulfill our needs, but sadly we often do.

    Ladies, it is important that you find a man that is able to provide the things you need and want in a relationship. This certainly will cut down on some of the problems associated with relationships.

  

  

   

 

 

 

Why do some men fall for women who claim to be “Bi”?

   Why do some men fall for women who claim to be “Bi”? The answer to this question is the same as why Adam ate of the forbidden tree. Answer, because a woman says that it was alright. Women might be known as the weaker sex, but they sure know how to persuade men.

   There are some women that could probably sell men the Brooklyn and Golden gate bridge and throw in the Florida Everglades at half price. These so called “bisexual women” convince their men that a lesbian tryst will spice up their relationship. I will refer to these women as the “great pretenders”.

   Many men think that a “great pretender “will be able to provide them with the ultimate sexual fantasy experience. Translation – sex with multiple women. Many men feel that women kissing and having sex is as good as it gets. What is Jerry Springer’s audience line? “We love lesbians”, “we love lesbians”. 

   Sometimes the man is invited into the affair and sometimes he is left in the cold (just ask the husband of Love and Hip-Hop periodic cast member Kalenna). Personally, I don’t think two women “sexing “is hot. I certainly would not welcome that kind of activity into my marriage. I don’t know of any woman who would accept their man being bisexual, especially if the man is the “receiver” in the bisexual activity. Do you?

   Furthermore, I don’t think I could trust a “great pretender”. How do I know that she is not using me as a smoke screen? Men, play at your own risk. I understand about sexual fantasies, but those are things you should experience before getting into a relationship. Well, I have told you. The rest is up to you.

  

 

Dwayne Wade - A Man of Sense.

   Dwayne Wade has resigned with the Heat despite the fact that his buddy LeBron James has left for Ohio. Dwayne Wade praised LeBron and said that “home is where the heart is”. Referring to LeBron going back to Ohio to live and play basketball.  I found it interesting that Mr. Wade made that statement. His home is the south side of Chicago.

   I see that he has not mentioned anything about going back to Chicago. Maybe he will return there when he retires. Dwayne Wade is a man of sense. You see, I am from Chicago myself and have no intention of ever living there again in life. I would not blame Mr. Wade if he expresses those same feelings.

   Chicago is not a paradise for African Americans. Most African American neighborhoods are infested with gangs. I am certainly not interested in hearing  gunshots , watching teen and preteen gang members run a” dope line” or deal with corrupt racial profiling police. The worst parts of Chicago are the west and south side. I have lived on both sides. So, I speak from experience.  

   Not only is Chicago gang infested and full of racial profiling cops, it is not as scenic or exciting as South Florida. Of course, one can really appreciate South Florida when they have money to spend. Yes Mr. Wade, stay a while. I am not as rich as you, but South Florida is my home.

LeBron James. Chris Bosch and Dwayne Wade – The Big Three are young, African American, men and in the driver’s seat.

   Most of us want to be successful in our profession. We want financial, emotional and physical stability. If we have children, we want them to be in a stable environment. It feels good to wake up in the morning knowing that our future and our children’s future are secure. Many celebrities are in that position.

   That is part of the reason that many people admire them. They seem to have all or most of the things that many of us strive to have in life. Well, that brings us to the group of three men who are collectively known as The Big Three. For those of you who don’t know who these men are, I am talking about LeBron James, Chris Bosch and Dwayne Wade. I am not a big basketball fan.

   My sport is football, but I can’t help but pay attention to these three men because they are always in the media. These men are young, African American,  and in the driver’s seat. These guys are commanding excellent salaries from playing for the Miami Heat as well as receiving income from other sources. They have net worth’s that would make any one stand up and take notice. They have made the city of Miami, Florida a household name in the world of professional basketball.

   Now the time has come for them to make decisions about their career. The Big Three have joined the world of free agency. The world is waiting to see what they are going to do. Will they stay in Miami or move on to other teams or other adventures. LeBron could go back to Cleveland, Bosch has a deal waiting for him in Houston and Wade seems to be waiting in the wings to see what his future holds.

  No matter what these men decide to do, they are in a position in life that most people only dream about.

  

Nene Leakes, K Michelle and Nicki Minaj – Three African American Celebrity Bad Girls.

Nene Leakes: I had never heard of Nene Leakes until her appearance on Donald Trump’s Show” The Celebrity Apprentice”. I watched her constantly bully Star Jones (so much for black women sticking together). From that point, I knew that she was a wild woman. I was surprised to learn that she had a husband. Who marries a woman that would give the “Amazonian women” a run for their money? I just don’t understand it. Did she grab the guy by his hair, drag him into a cave and make him marry her? Well, I wouldn’t touch her with a 10 foot hot poker.

K. Michelle. I first saw and heard of K. Michelle from the reality show Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta. She displayed “bad attitude” when talking with Mimi, Rasheeda and Kurt. I understand she comes from Memphis which is the birthplace of my mother (my mother was a tough petite lady with a sharp tongue). Now she is supposed to be a singer and musician. She needs to focus on her craft, because she is a horrible conversationalist. I am wondering what kind of guys would even consider spending time with a woman who spits fire from her mouth. K Michelle,
I have never been to Memphis. I certainly will make a point not to have a conversation with any of the women if i decide to visit the city.

Nicki Minaj: I first saw this woman on television at a  New Year’s Eve Celebration in New York. As time went on, I saw her attitude grow in conjunction with her career. I have met many New York females. Most of them are Like Nicki Minaj. I don’t know, maybe it is the water they drink. No matter how famous a person becomes, I don’t think they should “go off” on interviewers. Hey Nicki, a “brick house” body doesn’t give you a license to have a bad attitude. Lil Wayne! You and the boys are some bad cats to put up with that diva.

Bad Girls Club Chicago – Cast of Strange Characters

   This latest version of the Bad girl Club is a bunch of strange females.

    Jada is a petite New Yorker who nobody in the house seems to like. It must be jealousy, because Jada is a cool “white girl”. She fights anyone who wants to fight even thou she is the smallest in the house. The other girls in the house should have realized that most New Yorkers male or female are pretty tough.  

Redd. I live in South Florida and many of the girls are big and tattooed up like Redd. Many of the girls there are good actresses. So, one thing is for sure, she is true to her hood. Big Redd is amusing. She should be trying to launch a career in comedy instead of pursuing lesbian sex with white girls and promoting bullying.

   Well, we talked about Redd so let’s talk about Blu. Blu or Jonica is also funny. She thinks that she can keep her lesbian lover diamond on lock while she lies in the bed and toys with Aysia. Personally, I don’t think that Diamond is faithful. I believe that she is getting plenty of action while Blu is hugged up in the bed and corners with Aysia. Blu get a clue.

   Alex or slim is a sad sack. She has no confidence. Obviously she is clueless. She has a boyfriend named BJ who told her on the phone that he doesn’t want her to move in with him. What man tells his woman that? Let me break it down. I have never met a black man named or nicknamed BJ. I certainly don’t know any man that doesn’t want his woman to live with him. That session Alex and BJ had in the bathroom was weak. BJ should have “hit it” from the back in the bed. The bottom line, BJ is suspect! Alex if you like it, I love it.

   Loren is a toxic female. I knew Redd was a bully, but so is Loren. Her main enemy seems to be Jada. Hey Loren, maybe if you pick up some paper and pencil once in a while, you could put together some rap lines too.

   Britt is a talker not a shower. She claims to be so tough, but hasn’t busted a grape. This is another girl who can’t stand Jada. Hey Britt! Since you can’t seem to build up enough nerve to hit Jada, why don’t you have your boyfriend twerk her into the wall.

   Aysia is a nice looking confused woman. She has several problems. She wants to be “sexed” by fellow cast member Blu.  She has a boyfriend and Blu has a girlfriend that shows up at the house and other places. Sooner or later, Blu, Diamond and Aysia probably will have a threesome. Girls just want to have fun.

Mimi Mimi (Ms. Clean or shall we say Ms. Dirty –Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta) what are You Going to Do?

   Mimi who I use to call Ms. Clean is a cast member of the reality show Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta. Mimi owns a cleaning business thus the name Ms. Clean. She has a child with Stevie J who another member of the show. Mimi made a sex tape with a creep names Nikko. So, now she is Ms. Dirty. She believed the sad story Nikko gave her that a copy of the sex tape was stolen out of his luggage.  Most men aren’t very good liars. Nikko is no exception to the rule. A five year old child wouldn’t believe that nonsense.

   Mimi, are you that dumb or is Nikko’s “Magic Mike” just that good? No matter what the answer is, you are in deep water sinking. Mimi was concerned about the affect the tape would have on her daughter. If I were her, I would be worried about “what possessed me to kiss, lay in the bed and make a sex tape “  with a man who looks and acts like a “ prevert” (I mean pervert, but I wanted to make sure everyone realizes that Mimi is a sick puppy). Mimi told her friend Ariane that “she like what she likes”. I wouldn’t say that too loud. Mimi, Mimi you need a hug. I hope that you come to you senses before you lose more than just your self-respect.

Kaleena (One of the ladies on Hip-Hop Atlanta) is the man in her House.

   Kaleena is definitely a “Boss Lady”. She is one of the ladies on the VH1 hit “Love and Hip-Hop Atlanta”. She and her well groomed husband have a nice home and a recording studio. They both have an entertainment related business cultivating various artists. Kaleena has a “chick on the side”. This nice looking woman is a college friend of Kaleena who still “tickles her Elmo”.

   In these modern times, it is not uncommon for women to be sexual with other women. In fact, many men welcome that in their relationships. They feel that their sexual needs will be satisfied by their woman and her “chick on the side”. I have not personally dated any woman that admitted to these types of desires for women. I certainly would not tolerate this kind of behavior in my marriage.

  Kaleena’s husband is different from me. He is aware of his wife’s carnal desires and allowed her lesbian lover in his home. He received a rude awakening when his wife and lover informed him that they were going to “get it in” without him. Matter of fact, Kaleena’s lover made it clear that she was interested in Kaleena only.

   I take pride in being a man. Part of that pride consists of me being the captain in my home. Kaleena’s husband obviously missed that boat. Kaleena told Karlie Redd that she loved her husband. I believe that just like I believe Nicki Minaj would love to not be a celebrity.  Bottom line, Kaleena is the man in her house.